Each one of us brings many different things to LJ because we have each one had different experiences in our lives. These experiences color everything that we do and see, even if we do not intend them to do so.
Sooner or later people will let you down because people are human and to be human is to be imperfect. So let me apologize now for anything that I may say in the future or something that I may have said in the past that has hurt someone. In most cases, it was probably not my intention to hurt you. I am just not that way, but I am not perfect and I will probably let you down sooner or later.